The Charismatic Nerd

A People-Skills Book For High-Achievers

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I was running a confidence workshop in Lisbon back in 2017. One of our students had a life-changing moment.

We challenged Daniel to talk to a stranger and apply the techniques I teach in The Charismatic Nerd.

In just 10 minutes, his conversation with a random girl in the street went from Hello, to crying, to a tear-filled hug.

This girl felt so comfortable with James that she opened up to him about an abortion she once had.

He listened, reacted authentically, and genuinely connected with this person he’d just met — no longer a stranger.

Then she thanked him and they parted ways, both smiling.

James had never experienced anything like it. He didn’t know you could talk to people in this way, and what he learned changed his life forever.

What exactly am i buying here?

The Charismatic Nerd e-Book
(133 Pages. Downloadable PDF)

+ FREE Self-Paced Course with 100 lessons
(to apply the techniques from the book)

The BONUS COURSE includeS...

Real-world Application

Clear examples that demonstrate each technique in realistic situations.

Additional Tips

Practical strategies that show you how and where to apply each lesson in your life.

Simple Challenges

Easy exercises that let you try the techniques for yourself.

The Book includes...

part 1: Practical Communication SKILLS

  • Get out of your head when you’re overthinking
  • Answer complicated questions with ease
  • Fill an awkward silence
  • What to say when people talk over you
  • Build trust quickly
  • End conversations without being rude
  • Smoothly navigate group conversations
  • Fix the mistake that most people make at parties

part 2: Deeper Communication Strategy

  • Make people want to be around you
  • How to talk about things you know nothing about
  • Quickly and politely deal with annoying people
  • Eliminate guilt and strengthen your relationships
  • How to be more assertive
  • Build genuine inner strength and resilience
  • A practical way to quickly cheer yourself up
  • Build a social life from scratch

part 3: The Fun Part

  • Make boring conversations interesting
  • Body language tips to naturally hold attention
  • Skip small talk and ask meaningful questions
  • The fun way to answer “tell me about yourself”
  • Keep people engaged when you’re telling a story
  • Fix the first-impression mistake you're probably making
  • Make your stories captivating
  • The exercise that expands your comfort zone

part 4: GENUINE Human Connection

  • Figure out who you’re likely to connect with on a deep level
  • Make people feel immediately comfortable around you
  • A simple formula for building an engaging conversation
  • Cleverly-worded questions that get people to open up
  • Win people over to your point of view
  • Get better responses whenever you ask questions
  • How to smoothly navigate arguments
  • Make people feel closer to you
  • How to communicate with clarity
  • How to create genuine friendships


"I am fifteen and since I have started your course I have gotten my very first girlfriend (she had a crush on me) and gotten many new friends. You know, you are making such a big difference in our lives. Your techniques work like a charm. I have tried a lot of things from other books and youtube videos but nothing has ever really helped before."
George K.
"These lessons helped me see that building real, lasting self-confidence is a journey from the inside, not just memorising a load of canned lines. It has made a huge difference, not just in terms of dating success but in pretty much every aspect of my life."
Alex B.
“Normally when I try to get group conversations going I have below-average success. But your tips worked like a charm. Conversation skills can truly be learned when they’re properly documented. Thank you.”
Siddharth M.


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“Thank you so much! I can finally open up to my best friend about what I actually feel, instead of just being 'manly'. It feels great to be truly honest with others and thus be honest with yourself.”
Kyle L.
"Can’t thank you enough for showing me I can be captivating by sinking into my authenticity. It’s enabled me to feel confident whenever I’m telling a story or making a point."
Dana L.
“Just wanted to say you are awesome. I’ve never bought a course online before this one but man, your view on this subject is special. Love you man!”
Brad G.

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